You are the only one in charge of your story. You decide how to tell it.
You may be feeling like…
You’re not good enough
Constantly worried about the status of the relationship
Afraid of conflict, fearing it might lead to a breakup
Guilty when you ask for what you need
Afraid to be alone
Anxious over “what could happen” and over
analyzing people’s words and actions
Lost without a partner or relationship
Like you attract emotionally unavailable partners
Comparison to other women or your partner’s exes
Anxiety around if you’re asking too much
Unappreciated
Like you’re settling
Difficulty trusting your partner
Let’s rewrite your story.
You may often feel worried about where things stand with your partner, afraid of being abandoned, or constantly seeking reassurance. This can feel exhausting, leaving you to feel insecure and unsure about yourself or your relationship. You might notice yourself overthinking every interaction, avoiding difficult conversations, or feeling distant when you want to be close. It can feel like no matter what you do, you can’t shake the fear of things falling apart.
Individual counseling can be a powerful way to address these feelings. In therapy, you'll have the space to explore where this anxiety and insecurity come from and how it affects your relationship. Often, these issues stem from past experiences—how you were treated as a child or previous relationships that may have left emotional scars. Understanding these patterns can help you feel more in control of your emotions and behaviors rather than reacting out of fear or worry.
Through counseling, you’ll learn healthier ways to manage relationship anxiety and develop a more secure sense of self. This can lead to better communication, more trust, and a deeper connection with your partner. It’s not about fixing yourself, but about becoming more aware of your needs and feelings so you can approach your relationship with confidence and security. Ultimately, when you feel more grounded and secure in yourself, your relationship will naturally benefit from this growth.